As we all well know, life can be pretty discreet most of the time, hiding some of her biggest changes in a smile, a missed bus, or an exam score. Next thing we know, we're married to the smiler. Or we meet a very important stranger at the bus stop. Or we qualify for admission into a school we never expected to get in to and end up following a new life path. If life made us aware of how big every decision we make really was, existing would be pretty exhausting.
So, instead, she picks her moments. And these are the times times when she pulls out all the stops. For some reason, life decides this is a decision she's going to let you make. Perhaps to her, they are the small things. 'My lease is up, where will I live next?' To us, it's a huge decision. A decision involving contracts, and movers, and more money than we sometimes can afford. To her, this is a minor detail. Her work involves the little things that fill in all of the other moments of our existence.
So my round-about advice is enjoy the 'big' decisions because perhaps they are the smallest ones you'll make. And what seem to be the most insignificant ones--smiling at a stranger--could change the path of your life forever.
So, YOU ARE AT A CROSSROAD!! Life's little inside joke to make you feel important. No matter which path you take, it will all work out.